BDSM - How to Introduce Into Your Bedroom Play

With the success of the sequel 50 Shades of Grey, there is a buzz around that got several people curious and more interested in the practice of BDSM.

What it is, how couples can introduce BDSM in the relationship and what are the most used sensual accessories are just some of the main questions among the unexperienced BDSM enthusiasts.

To help you, we've prepared this informational guide. Check it out and be sure to share it with your partner!

What is BDSM?

Acronym for "Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism," BDSM is still a topic of curiosity and doubt for anyone who is interested in including it in their routine.

The practice, contrary to what many people believe, is not just a matter to cause and/or feel pain without reason. On the contrary! The couple's goal should be to achieve enjoyment at a high level - both in a sexual and in a behavioral way.

How couples can be more open to this idea

First of all, before starting with BDSM, as any other sexual activity, it must be made with the consent of both partners. Therefore, it is essential that the couple is in tune and willing to share the same sexual experience.

For this, dialogue is indispensable. After all, it is important that both understand their limits and identify how far they are willing to go for pleasure.

If they have never had previous experience with the practices of BDSM, it is possible to gradually include them in their sexual repertoire. A good starting point is trampling - a BDSM sexual activity in which a submissive person becomes aroused by the thought or action of having a dominant person or people walk over his or her body. The next step would be soft bondage - the use of restrains during sex, following by deprivation of orgasm and, finally, introducing domination and submission.

Sexy accessories to start in BDSM

There is no shortage of options when it comes to accessories that beginners can use to begin practicing the art of domination and submission.

The plethora of products allied with imagination is all you need to get out of the rut and boost the quality of sex. So, below we've listed 7 items you should try if you are willing to experiment BDSM with your partner.

1. Fold

Inhibiting your partner's sight with a fold means expanding his other senses while surprising him and giving him moments of intense pleasure.

2. Gag

The gag has a role to prevent the submissive from speaking or even complaining while the dominator satisfies their desires.

3. Whip

With an average number of 12 strips, the dominator can control the level of pain felt by the submissive with the whipping, intensifying or diminishing it.

4. Harness

The harness is one of the most remarkable sensual accessories of BDSM and is a basic accessory for the submissive who wants to warm up the relationship.

5. Anal Plug

The anal plug is a very used piece when one of the partners wants to experience the pleasures of anal sex allied to BDSM.

6. Handcuffs 

Another classic piece, the handcuffs serve to immobilize the partner and leave him even more submissive to their wishes.

Now that you know more about BDSM and what sexy accessories to use to intensify your pleasure, it may be time to introduce into your relationship taking baby steps. Do not waste time and try it today! Enjoy it and learn more about other products and items from our sex shop that will spice up your night by subscribing to our mailing list. Your inbox will get a lot more enticing!

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