Improving Your Relationship With Masturbators

Improving Your Relationship With Masturbators

Every relationship must be revived, rekindled, and spiced up with a certain frequency. Don’t freak out if you are feeling kind of yawn-y in your sex life. The longer you are with someone, the more likely you are to transition from “passionate” love into “compassionate” love, but small changes and attitudes can have major impacts on the relationship as a whole. And when it comes to boosting relationships, masturbators can be excellent allies.

Masturbators are practical, they work wonders and, best of all, they are extremely versatile.

Don’t fool yourself into thinking that masturbators are only meant to provide pleasure when you are alone. They can be used in a variety of situations: foreplay, double masturbation and sexual intercourse.

That's it! Masturbators are powerful cards that everyone must have up their sleeves to spice up the relationship. Most of all, masturbators are accessories that will have a thousand and one possibilities to bring the spark back to your long-term relationship.



What are masturbators?

Masturbators are known erotic accessories that aim to aid and give more pleasure to the act of masturbation. They are made, in most cases, of silicone or cyberskin (material that imitates human skin). There are several models and brands available. 

There are female masturbators, those whose goal is to provide pleasure to the woman's body. In this class we have the vibrators and the clitoral stimulators, among others. 

As for male masturbators, the format is thought to satisfy the sexual pleasures of men, mostly have cavities that mimic vaginas, anus or mouths to simulate oral sex. Many models have internal vibration systems, textures, or "suction" that increase pleasure sensations.



Most Popular Types of Masturbators

Of course there are those types of masturbators that are best known - you can start with them to improve the relationship. Let's see some:


Egg Masturbators

Calm down, it's not what you are thinking. This masturbator, which has an egg shape on the outside, contains a silicone sleeve with an opening at one end that is where the penis is inserted. It is flexible - so it fits multiple sizes of penis - and very comfortable. Its grooves and designs give wonderful sensations of pleasure, like a massaging mouth, for example, but there are several versions that simulate the vagina or the anus. Great for anyone who is wondering whether or not to introduce a masturbator in the relationship.


Sexpert tip

Enjoy self-pleasure anytime with Tenga Eggs. Crack open the egg-shapped casing and you will find a soft, white EGG. The super stretchable elastomer can drastically expand for a snug fit regardless of your size. A surprise to open and a pleasure to use!




Fleshlights Masturbators

these are indeed like a flashlight, but internally, their formats cause wonderful sensations during masturbation, and some models have vibration, for an extra stimulus. They may also have the appearance of an anus, mouth or vagina and can be very discreet.


Sexpert tip:

Enjoy hyper-realistic oral sex, use the ergonomic handle top for a perfect grip or also as a dildo to give or receive pleasure with Lingox Triple Masturbator. Penetrate the sleeve and feel the infinite softness of our exclusive formula Re-Evolution Skin Material Lingox. The only masturbator sleeve of the market with the tongue out and finished as never seen before. It reproduces exactly oral sex. A unique sensation with a perfect aesthetics.




Replicas of anus, breasts and vaginas:

Those that simulate the sexual and erogenous body parts are also popular. They are made of materials that mimic human skin and cause wonderful sensations. They can be used to pretend a threesome and to show off to the partner I some sort of fetish, for example.


Sexpert Tip

Z-Chamber is made of ultra soft and body-safe TPE material, with super real inner structure. Looks like a black dumbell, this is discreet for carrying. But inside it's something that definitely turns you on. The soft inner covering creates intense and pleasurable thrusts and being detachable makes the toy very easy to clean.



Clitoral Stimulators

They have a variety of shapes and each one gives a different feel. There are those who simulate oral sex, others stimulate by suction or vibration, all available for female masturbation alone or during sex.


Sexpert tip:  

With flexible wings that tuck under the labia while Eva II sits on top, you can have clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex. Eva II is smaller, lighter, and simple to use - plus, it's totally waterproof, and comes with a sleek charging base/travel case to boot. 



Vibrators in general

The good old vibrator is very versatile, have many models, sizes and shapes, are excellent to be used with your partner, either masturbating the other, or during sexual intercourse, both in women and men.


Sexpert tip:

We-Vibe Nova combines the pleasure of G-spot stimulation with powerful clitoral vibration. The unique design flexes with movement to stay in contact with her clitoris.




Practical tips on how to improve the relationship with masturbators

Now that we have learnt the masturbators available in the market, let's give you some ideas to increase your relationship with them in practice.

It is good to remember that, despite our tips and suggestions, the most important thing is to always let the imagination roll loose. Imagine and try other ways to spice up the relationship, either with the masturbators or with the various other accessories available on the market. Let’s see:


To get into the climate

We know that masturbators are great to warm up during foreplay, they stimulate the first sensations to warm the moment and then let it roll. So that is the first suggestion of use: to arouse the desire for sexual intercourse. Begin by masturbating one another, slowly, without haste, until you are more excited and actually begin the preliminaries;


In the foreplay always

It is at this point that you can explore each other's body calmly and provide a lot of pleasure - in addition, of course, to prepare for the sex itself. In foreplay, masturbators can be used to intensify pleasure, to leave everything in point for the main game. You can, for example, take turns or masturbate both at the same time. Depending on the model, you can also stimulate with a massage on the erogenous zones


Make up during intercourse

At the moment of sex, masturbators can be used to explore other areas, for example: masturbating the partner during the kiss, stimulating the anus during penetration, penetrating the anus and vagina at the same time, among other positions - they are infinite;



Don’t be shy! When talking about introducing a masturbator in your bedroom play, many people may be embarrassed to be observed during masturbation. But shame must be put aside. In fact, watching your partner masturbating can provoke crazy stimulation. It's exciting, it's nice to see each other enjoying. Try it!



Masturbators open up numerous possibilities to increase pleasure for couples and to innovate in the relationship. For those who are very shy, you can go slowly and gain the confidence to introduce sex toys in the relationship and enjoy all the delights that it can provide. If you do not try it, how will you know? Open your mind, dare!

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