Top 8 Fun and Kinky Sex Games to Play with Your Partner

Looking for some extra spice in the bedroom?

Sexperts say that mixing it up in the bedroom is one of the keys to a sturdy relationship. So if things are getting a little samey, it's time to jazz it up with some kinky new ideas.

Ready to find out how? We've put together 8 fun and kinky sex games to play with your partner...if you dare.

Play With Your Food

Bringing food to the bedroom is a real classic and for good reason.

Sex and food have more in common than you might think. They're both sensual, intimate experiences which engage our most visceral senses.

Keep it sweet with foods like cream and honey, and don't overdo it. You don't want a sugar-crash before the action, after all. A little goes a long way. Choose cold foods to really stimulate the nerves and get the blood flowing.

Stick to erogenous zones, not the really sexy parts. After all, you'll want to use those later, and they don't mix well with food. But beyond that, it's time to explore - with your tongue, ideally.

Top it all off with a sensual shower. Washing up has never been so fun!

Timed Foreplay

Notice how everything feels more exciting when there's a time limit?

Sex can work the same way. Set yourselves a timer and a rule: that you can't go all the way till the timer expires.

Now, enjoy the foreplay. The mad fumbling, the desperate groping and stroking, all without the release of sex. Until the buzzer goes, that is...

Timed foreplay rekindles that feel of teenage fondling in the dark, trying to get all the action in before the parents come home. It's frantic, nervous energy, and very, very sexy.

Go Shopping

It might not sound like the raunchiest game in town, but bear with us here.

Set a budget and hit the sex shops. Each of you gets to pick out some new toys, with the promise of using them later.

And hey, sex doesn't always need to be a co-op game. We're talking about sex games, here, after all. Try competing to see who can find the kinkiest toy - winner gets to decide how you use it.

This game is ideal for couples who won't get easily embarrassed in public. BUT (and who doesn't love a big but?) it can also be pretty exciting for those who do. The illicit nerves and feelings of shame can all add to the raunchy energy.

Of course, the best way to deal with all that sexy energy is with a big blow-out when you get home.

The Trust Game

Do you trust your partner? Do they trust you?

I guess it's time to find out.

Blindfolds and bondage are the ultimate trust test. And they do wonders for the senses, too. A blindfold amps up the other senses to compensate. Suddenly, every nerve feels alive with sensation as you guess where your partner's tongue will land next.

And a couple straps will keep you from "protecting" yourself with your hands. Now you're at their mercy, and they're in control.

Set a safe-word in advance, and away you go.

20 (Dirty) Questions

You might think you're a long way past ice-breakers, but how much do you really know about your partner's deepest, darkest secrets? Questions are the perfect way to discover what you never knew.

A game of "Would You Rather?" could get you both spilling some fantasies you've kept to yourselves.

Or how about you make ignorance into the losing condition of the game? Ask questions about each other. For every question someone fails to answer, they're forced to lose some clothes.

Like many of the best sex games, this one's sure to escalate to the only logical conclusion.

Playing with Power

A lot of couples know who wears the pants in the streets, but things between the sheets tend to be more democratic.

Throw it out. Give someone near complete control for an evening, and see what happens.

This is a great game to mix with a little roleplay. The master can be a figure of authority, like a police officer. Add a few props, and you can take this pretty far - especially if they're forced to break out the handcuffs.

Switching up the power dynamic can really bring new life to the bedroom, and it may surprise you how easily you slide into the roles. Come up with a safeword beforehand and you won't have to worry about taking it too far.

A Little Light Punishment

Uh oh! They forgot to do their chores! Time for a little light punishment.

Get your partner bent over. Get yourself a good spanking instrument - or use your bare hands.

Now, make sure they know they're a bad boy or girl. Give them a spank for all the little things they've done wrong today. Forgot to walk the dog - spank. Forgot to buy milk - spank.

Watch as their butt turns red with shame and embarrassment, and see if you can get a few moans of pleasure to go with the light pain.

Truth or Dare

Come on, it's an absolute classic!

Truth or Dare really is one of the timeless sex games for ducking around inhibitions. Ask your partner to do the things you've never dared ask them before. What's that? They refused? Oh well, time for the suitably sexy forfeit!

The spur-of-the-moment feel really brings out the excitement. Never knowing what you'll be asked next is tense and nerve-wracking, creating an illicit, naughty atmosphere.

And like a traditional game of Truth or Dare, it'll probably keep escalating until wild, passionate sex is the only reasonable outcome.

Invent Your Own Sex Games

Nobody knows your own body like you do. What have you always wanted to do with your partner, but never had the opportunity? Make it into a game! Games are supposed to be fun, so inventing your own can be part of the excitement. Once you break down your inhibitions, there's no limit on what you can do.

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