10 Must-Have Sex Toys For Women to Play Solo or With a Partner

Most women think of sex toys as a mere solo play device or object. However, if you consider the abundance of kinds and the variety in shape, size, power and technology when simply browsing an online sex shop, you quickly realize that adult toys go beyond self-pleasure. 

A well-thought collection of adult toys will support you in both your quality alone time and your partnered play, get you out of a sex rut and strengthen your relationship, boost self-confidence, and even increase your libido, among many other benefits to improve your health and sexuality.

Although you may have that trusty old vibrator that has been doing the trick, every self-respecting pleasure enthusiast should have at least a few of these 10 best sex toys for women in their drawer to please not only herself but to mix things up in the bedroom with a partner.

That being said, here's our list of 10 must-have sex toys for women.

1. Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit Vibrators are the best sellers in the adult toy market for a reason. Perfect for your “me time”, thanks to Sex and the City they are everywhere now.

A Rabbit Vibrator works to a woman's weak spot, providing stimulation to the clitoris whilst also providing internal stimulation hitting the G-Spot.

Just make sure you stay away from cheapie Rabbit vibrators, which can be toxic. The Svakom Adonis and the We-Vibe Nova Iconic Rabbit are some of the best.

2. G-spot Vibrator

Not all ladies like having their G-spot stimulated, but for those who do, a sex toy can be the best way to get at it.

A G-spot vibrator should have a curved shape designed intended to make it easier to hit the sweet spot. When buying a good g spot vibrator look for four key elements:

1. The design must be safe for penetration
2. Material is firm enough not to bend when inserted
3. The tip of the shaft should be curved
4. Size should be comfortable for penetration

The ones with flared bases are also safe for anal play and its curve can be pleasurable when used anally for men too, as it can stimulate the prostate.

3. Bullet Vibrator

Perfect for when you’re on the go, bullet vibrators are very small and usually fairly powerful for their size. They are affordable and one of the most discreet sex toys for women looking like just lipstick in your handbag.

You can also use them inside any dildo that takes a small bullet vibe, to turn it into a vibrator.

Two classics are the We-Vibe Tango, considered by many the most powerful bullet vibrator, and the Svakom Elva remote control bullet vibrator that has 5 different modes and 5 intensities in every mode, so you have 5 x 5 = 25 + 1 (Intelligent Mode) = 26 selections.

4. Hands-free clitoral vibrator

A lot of women find it difficult or almost impossible to achieve orgasm. While men report orgasm in approximately 95 percent of heterosexual encounters, for women the figure ranges from 50 to 70 percent, depending on the study.

This is also due to the fact that a majority of women find themselves climaxing with clitoral stimulation as opposed to penetration. And while vibrators or even our hands can help to stimulate the clit during sex, sometimes holding a toy in place can also be distracting, and even counterproductive.

Hands-free clitoral vibrators are worn by the woman, leaving your hands free to support your weight, move around, and focus on intimacy.

Our recommendation is the Eva 2 by Dame, the first truly hands-free wearable vibrator. It is lightweight and small, waterproof and available in two beautiful colours. It features flexible wings that gently tuck under the labia and can comfortably be worn during penetrative sex.

5. Wand Massager

They are the classic “Cadillac of vibrators”. Originally made by Hitachi, they are the strongest vibrators on the market and have helped many women finally reach their happy place. Just remember that when you get this amount of power in one product, there's a trade-off between sound levels and super-strong vibrations.

If style and discretion is your priority, Svakom Emma makes a more aesthetically pleasing version. If you are looking for a powerhouse version, keep an eye on the Doxy Extra Powerful Massage Wand Vibrator. 

Ideal as a sex toy when you’re alone, a Wand Massager also comes handy as a back massager for him too.

6. Remote Control Sex Toy

To be pleasured, invisibly, secretly, discreetly, from a distance, these fun toys put the control of your genital stimulation in your or your partner’s hands, literally.

We-Vibe makes a line of remote control toys that can work from a distance of up to 12 meters and they work through walls, across a crowded room, a candlelit restaurant table, underwater or just in your bed. They also have the We-Connect technology that allows couples to play even being in different continents via the We-Connect App, being perfect for those who want to keep intimacy in a long-distance relationship.

7. Vibrating Cock Ring

How does having a clitoral stimulation during intercourse sound to you? Yes, that’s sex the way mother nature intended it!

Cock rings (aka penis rings, aka erection rings) is used to enhance an erection and orgasm by restricting blood flow on his penis and some come with a vibrating mode or have a small vibrator on it to stimulate her clitoris during intercourse.

They are available from low-end disposables to high-end luxurious artworks and the choice to go in case you want to enhance his erection while stimulating your clitoris is the We-Vibe Verge.

8. Wedge Pillow

A wedge pillow is all you need to give your sex life a good lift. 

Jokes aside, amazing sex is all about comfort and access and if you have not heard of sex furniture yet and how you can transform your bedroom in an adult playground, you must check out the Liberator Sex Furniture collection to discover the best sex pillows and shapes you will find in a sex shop.

They are great to help you make those otherwise awkward penetrative sex positions more comfortable, sustain the action for longer without aches and pains, support couples struggling with a difference in size between partners and ultimately offering access for a better angle and deeper penetration. 

The list of benefits for using a wedge pillow for sex goes on, but to simplify the matter all you need to know to try out one is that wedge pillows and sex furniture, in general, are made to support your bodies so that you can more comfortably get into different sex position. 

They are designed to prop up body parts like your stomach, back, butt, and pelvis, yet they're also super comfy for when you want to bask in the afterglow and drift off to sleep.

9. A Blindfold

You know everything feels naughtier when one of you can’t see. A Blindfold will heighten your other senses, build trust in your relationship with your partner, and the sexual tension is tightened. 

Take the kink factor to the next level with a matching set of made-for-play handcuffs. A blindfold may be the best way to dip your toe in the wonderful world of light bondage if you are feeling the effects of boredom in the bedroom or just a little curious about playing with power.

10. Lube

Lubes must be on the top of your list when it comes to sex accessories. You can pick from water-based lube, which is great for any and all play, to a silicone-based lube, which is ticker and handy for sex in the shower and anal play. 

Just don’t use silicone-based lube with your toy if it is made of or contains silicone as they do deteriorate sex toys that also contains silicone due to the way that the silicone molecules react with other silicone products.

All purpose-made lubes give you the most bang for your buck. It improves all handwork, is a perfect fit for any backdoor play, marathon session or sex with a guy you're not that attracted to. It even increases endurance and sensation during masturbation and intercourse.

These are our 10 must-have sex toys for women to play solo or with a partner. 

Remember, they say you can tell a lot about a woman from her drawer. Don’t be judgemental and start introducing a variety of sex toys to your relationship. You will be amazed how much-added enjoyment it can bring to your sensual sessions. The question now is; which one do you choose?

Visit our store to buy your must-have sex toy online with privacy from the comfort of your home and let us know in the comments the one chose.

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